Dragging vs Learning

For a while I had been trying to feel the way that I feel rigth now but I couldn`t maybe because of my troubled life, but do I carry around of my baggage? I really think that is not a baggage as long as you learn what you have to learn from it. Because if you think about it, every single experience in our life, is very very important to our personal development specialy if we have to really learn from it. Is not that we find a big resolution to every one of our trouble, is just that we have sustain ourself from what we have been living rather that carried around with it . . .